Hi,
I felt that it's important to share my story with men but especially other women because as a woman I "waited" for the right guy to come into my life and he never did, a friend convinced me to sign up to this website I had been in another website where matchmakers set you up but I didn't get many matches from there and that was part of me "waiting" for the right man as I had always assumed he would just show up. When I signed up to this website after being on it and not really liking anyone that "approached" me I decided to look through the male profiles and reluctantly sent out a message to one or two men one of the men (my husband now) I didn't like where he was from which was the same place I was from but I liked his short simple profile with picture and I just decided to send him a generic message set up by JWed, he later told me that he was not signed up to the website so if I didn't send him that message he wouldn't have signed up to see what I wrote and I wouldn't have met him. Also we met after a few short messages I didn't want to get to know someone online and not in person. Be proactive in your search if you are not already. All the best and good luck.