It takes just one!

Match #: 3021&3022

I decided to take a break from dating, but something nagged at me to do one last hishtadlus. So i signed up for 2 months on JWed. the next day (!) he contacted me by message. he said that my profile is ‘different’ and a ‘breath of fresh air’. i was surprised, because i wrote very little about myself and what i was looking for but he said he read between the lines what i “wasn't” looking for, and that he believes that he might be the one i AM looking for! i thought he talked a lot but also thought ‘hmm, this is intriguing’, so i responded, and we emailed that day a bit, and then spoke on the phone for 4 hours... we met the next day, and when he went to the bathroom at some point, i texted my sister ‘finally a great date!’. we talked ‘tachles’ from the first date, and have been inseparable since. second marriages are complex, so we are still working out the details of work, living, etc. and as soon as we feel it is settled, will get engaged formally. we hope to have the chuppah before RH, so that we could start the new year off on a spiritual and emotional high. i wish for all singles to find their basherts as easily and as smoothly as i did, and would be happy to assist others in the process, whether it’s on their profile, or during their dating experiences. there is nothing sweeter than the feeling of being loved and cared for by hashem and by your future spouse. it takes just one to realize who and what you are, and to believe in you and run with you to bring out the best attributes in your personality and soul.

thank you! please keep names anonymous if advertising.

It takes just one!

I decided to take a break from dating, but something nagged at me to do one last hishtadlus. So i signed up for 2 months on JWed. the next day (!) he contacted me by message. he said that my profile is ‘different’ and a ‘breath of fresh air’. i was surprised, because i wrote very little about myself and what i was looking for but he said he read between the lines what i “wasn't” looking for, and that he believes that he might be the one i AM looking for! i thought he talked a lot but also thought ‘hmm, this is intriguing’, so i responded, and we emailed that day a bit, and then spoke on the phone for 4 hours... we met the next day, and when he went to the bathroom at some point, i texted my sister ‘finally a great date!’. we talked ‘tachles’ from the first date, and have been inseparable since. second marriages are complex, so we are still working out the details of work, living, etc. and as soon as we feel it is settled, will get engaged formally. we hope to have the chuppah before RH, so that we could start the new year off on a spiritual and emotional high. i wish for all singles to find their basherts as easily and as smoothly as i did, and would be happy to assist others in the process, whether it’s on their profile, or during their dating experiences. there is nothing sweeter than the feeling of being loved and cared for by hashem and by your future spouse. it takes just one to realize who and what you are, and to believe in you and run with you to bring out the best attributes in your personality and soul.

thank you! please keep names anonymous if advertising.

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