Chaim and Patricia

Match #: 2121&2122

My years of loneliness after the death of my first wife came to an end when I met Pat on JWed, only I didn't know it at the time. I was intrigued by Pat's profile; a smart and attractive widow from my home town, courageously starting a new career,and who, by all accounts from mutual friends, is simply a wonderful person always there to help anyone in need. However, I live in New York, and not much of a frequent flyer, so I wasn't sure about taking on long-distance dating, but I contacted Pat anyway, thinking if G-d meant for us to be together, He would arrange it.

He did.

After writing and speaking to each other a few times, we friended each other on Facebook, but as I had dates with others lined up, and Pat wasn't going to be in New York any  time soon, we didn't make any plans to date, and I soon ended up in a long term relationship with someone else (also through JWed).

Several months later, when my relationship came to an end, I was surprised by a message from Pat that she was going to be in town to visit her stepson and his fiance and would I like to go out on a double-date. We went out and immediately hit it off, but I told her she was "geographically challenged". I went home and over the next few days came to realize my mistake. I began to realize that this was who I was meant to be with, and if I lived ten thousand miles away and not just one thousand, I would do whatever it took to be with her. I then properly courted Pat, started racking up frequent flyer miles, and after living in New York for thirty two years, I am moving back to my hometown of St. Louis, and to my "home" Patricia Harris.

Chaim and Patricia

My years of loneliness after the death of my first wife came to an end when I met Pat on JWed, only I didn't know it at the time. I was intrigued by Pat's profile; a smart and attractive widow from my home town, courageously starting a new career,and who, by all accounts from mutual friends, is simply a wonderful person always there to help anyone in need. However, I live in New York, and not much of a frequent flyer, so I wasn't sure about taking on long-distance dating, but I contacted Pat anyway, thinking if G-d meant for us to be together, He would arrange it.

He did.

After writing and speaking to each other a few times, we friended each other on Facebook, but as I had dates with others lined up, and Pat wasn't going to be in New York any  time soon, we didn't make any plans to date, and I soon ended up in a long term relationship with someone else (also through JWed).

Several months later, when my relationship came to an end, I was surprised by a message from Pat that she was going to be in town to visit her stepson and his fiance and would I like to go out on a double-date. We went out and immediately hit it off, but I told her she was "geographically challenged". I went home and over the next few days came to realize my mistake. I began to realize that this was who I was meant to be with, and if I lived ten thousand miles away and not just one thousand, I would do whatever it took to be with her. I then properly courted Pat, started racking up frequent flyer miles, and after living in New York for thirty two years, I am moving back to my hometown of St. Louis, and to my "home" Patricia Harris.

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